Love is a beautiful emotion and being loved by the person you love is the world’s wonderful gift, one can possess. However, while the first chapter of love begins with happiness, later chapters emerge the emotion of fear- fear of losing your beloved. This article is for the ones who want to efface their unreasonable fear and replace the same
with some piece of advices that will surely aid them maintain a healthier love life and keep intact their intimacy.
Cultivate supportive relationship- Supporting each other every time in all aspects of life is an imperative factor. Your relationship should have a sturdy backup of ‘maturity’ and ‘mutual respect’ when supporting each others decisions and actions. Being supportive will also foster individual space for both of you; thereby enabling to honor and validate the decision made by you or your partner instead of imposing it on each other. For this, never say shut up to him and listen to what he wishes to say even if you don’t want to.
Expectation hurts- No matter how much you love your partner or he loves you there comes a situation when you get offended. It is not because of him you get hurt but because of your expectations which aren’t met by him. Thus, when you will expect less or rather stop expecting from him, the transpiring moments will be pleasant surprises for you; which will certainly leave a smile on your lips, replacing tears in your eyes.
Abolish ego- A matured relationship demands absence of ego for enhancement. Ego tend to close our eyes to reality and make us live in the world of delusion which is indeed a bad sign that can ruin your fantastic bond. So don’t let resentment or egos trap you so that you can’t say sorry to him. Remember apologizing sincerely for your mistake by propelling ego is always necessary to reinforce the bond. So, overcome ego before its shadow overcomes your relationship.
Handle with Care- Relationships are frail and so you need to handle them with care. Don’t try to hold them tightly or possessively as there are chances of them getting snapped. Hold it loosely with reverence and independence for the other person by which he can breathe freely and not be backed into a corner of suffocation. Leave room for his growth, but accept him just the way he is.
Meticulous practice of these love rules will assure you a perfect blend of love, care, understanding, commitment to attain a ‘perfect relationship’ dish with your partner. However, don’t forget to embellish it with zing of romance.
Develop And maintain a special ritual in your relationship- Say "I Love You".