Design My Self

Girls are usually possessive as well as excited about their new boyfriend. Most of the time, the attempts of trying to be girly as well as adorable turns into a disaster.

One might remember the movie- How to lose a guy in 10 days. Benjamin Barry is competing with his 2 female co-workers for a campaign for diamond merchant.

He reaches the deal with his competitors that the account is his own, if he can make a woman of their choice to fall in love with him in 10 days.

If you are bored with your guy and if you are looking for a new relationship, then here are a few tips to get rid of your guy-

• Decide on a date to dump your boyfriend, and make sure it is an insignificant date. Don’t dump your guy on Valentine’s Day, his birthday or any other significant day which will add insult to injury of breakup.
• Maintain distance from him for at least 1 week prior to the date you have decided to dump him. Don’t call him or message him and if he calls you, tell him that you are busy. This will give you time to think what you have to say and will also make sure what you want.
• Never dump your guy in front of his friends. Make sure that you both are alone.
• If your decision is final, make sure that you have the courage to tell him on his face. Don’t breakup over e-mail, text or phone. This is just cheap.
• Before dumping him, take a deep breath and then tell him that you don’t want to be together. Make sure that you explain him the reason for your decision. After this is done, walk away, staying there will look very awkward.
• Dump your boyfriend in a respectful way. Don’t blame your guy and instead use the word “I”. Thus, instead of saying,” You always hurt me or “You don’t make me happy”, say “I am not happy” or “I didn’t understood you.”
• Don’t give your guy false hope. If you will not date him again, just tell him so. Wish him the best in life.
• If your boyfriend was a dominating and egoistic guy, don’t think twice before dumping him. But, if you’re breaking up because of some misunderstandings, then it is advisable to sort out your relationship and give him another chance.

Also, after you dump your guy, stay away from him for at least 2 months. This will give both of you some time to heal and move forward.